{"id":19719,"date":"2026-03-07T23:22:06","date_gmt":"2026-03-07T23:22:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bluelightnews.com\/category\/politics\/christina-applegates-honest-answer-to-the-worst-question-you-can-ask\/"},"modified":"2026-03-07T23:22:06","modified_gmt":"2026-03-07T23:22:06","slug":"christina-applegates-honest-answer-to-the-worst-question-you-can-ask","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bluelightnews.com\/category\/politics\/christina-applegates-honest-answer-to-the-worst-question-you-can-ask\/","title":{"rendered":"Christina Applegate\u2019s honest answer to the worst question you can ask"},"content":{"rendered":"<section>\n<div>\n<p><time datetime=\"2026-03-07T06:00:00-05:00\">Tues. 7, 2026, 6:00 AM EST<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><em>How are you?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>When you live with a chronic disease, this everyday question can feel like a trap.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;Does this person <em>really<\/em> want to know how I&rsquo;m doing &mdash; or is she just being polite?&rdquo; you wonder. If you opt to share the actual truth, is the nascent conversation going to screech to an uncomfortable halt?<\/p>\n<p>As someone who has lived with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nationalmssociety.org\/understanding-ms\/what-is-ms\">multiple sclerosis<\/a> for a decade, when I&rsquo;m asked this question, I usually say I&rsquo;m fine, even if I&rsquo;m not. There&rsquo;s a great deal of pressure on folks with chronic illnesses to feign wellness so we don&rsquo;t make people regret speaking with us.<\/p>\n<figure>\n<blockquote>\n<p>There&rsquo;s a great deal of pressure on folks with chronic illnesses to feign wellness so we don&rsquo;t make people regret speaking with us.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/figure>\n<p>Yet there are many days when this incurable, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nationalmssociety.org\/understanding-ms\/ms-research\/pathways-to-cures\/what-a-cure-means\">degenerative autoimmune disease<\/a> makes me most definitely <em>not<\/em> fine, like during hot and humid summer months when the areas of my brain that MS damaged make me ill. Or when my MS fatigue &mdash; imagine you&rsquo;re a smartphone that suddenly can&rsquo;t hold a charge &mdash; renders me unable to function or think properly.<\/p>\n<p>This is why Emmy-winning actor Christina Applegate&rsquo;s candid descriptions of how she&rsquo;s faring with her MS make me feel seen and understood. During the publicity tour for her new memoir, &ldquo;<a href=\"https:\/\/bookshop.org\/p\/books\/you-with-the-sad-eyes-a-memoir-christina-applegate\/a8d27831dec84383?ean=9780316594929&amp;next=t&amp;&amp;utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=dsa_nonbrand&amp;utm_content=%7Badgroupname%7D&amp;utm_term=aud-1885352274144:dsa-19959388920&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=12440232635&amp;gbraid=0AAAAACfld42oN75jgUaOwvhktorP8A_NP&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiA-__MBhAKEiwASBmsBJoiHlwHqVW75B-rE_hoOqRKMVKbWJoVvbKv7eszlpnADGrbiSPS2RoCSTEQAvD_BwE\">You with the Sad Eyes<\/a>&rdquo; &mdash; released during <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nationalmssociety.org\/how-you-can-help\/get-involved\/raise-awareness\">MS Awareness Month<\/a> &mdash; Applegate has said that sharing the difficult truths about the effects of the disease, refusing to sugarcoat it, is her goal.<\/p>\n<p>In an interview, People magazine described the &ldquo;Dead to Me&rdquo; and &ldquo;Anchorman&rdquo; star as needing to lie in bed most days because of physical pain from her condition. &ldquo;People&rsquo;s lives &hellip; f&ndash;&ndash;&ndash;ing suck sometimes,&rdquo; Applegate said. &ldquo;So I&rsquo;m being as honest and raw as I possibly can.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>In an appearance on &ldquo;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=PnSGLTcSyDc\">Jimmy Kimmel Live<\/a>,&rdquo; Applegate also discussed her launch of a web platform for people with MS. &ldquo;There&rsquo;s got to be more communities that are not, like, sentimental and weird. I&rsquo;m weird. &hellip; Let&rsquo;s talk weird about MS.&rdquo; In a promo video for the site, Next In MS, she promised to share everything from &ldquo;honest conversations about the ugly truths to the real, genuine wins.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;Yes,&rdquo; I thought, &ldquo;more of Applegate&rsquo;s brand of honesty, please.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<figure>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Christina Applegate on Naming Her Body Parts, Married with Children, Writing a Memoir &amp; MS Awareness\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/PnSGLTcSyDc?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<\/figure>\n<p>To be fair, she&rsquo;s been doing this honesty thing since March 2024, when she launched the podcast &ldquo;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/C4stVgNOImT\/\">MeSsy<\/a>&rdquo; with fellow actor and MS patient Jamie-Lynn Sigler. They&rsquo;ve discussed topics like parenting children when you&rsquo;re exhausted and in pain, and struggling with your sense of self-worth when the disease strips you of the ability to do the things you want to do. Their first episode was aptly titled &ldquo;How Are You?&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>For someone of Applegate&rsquo;s stature not only to raise awareness about what MS is &mdash; a disease of the central nervous system that affects an estimated <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nationalmssociety.org\/about-the-society\/who-we-are\/research-we-fund\/ms-prevalence\">1 million people<\/a> in the United States and almost <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nationalmssociety.org\/about-the-society\/who-we-are\/research-we-fund\/ms-prevalence\">3 million globally<\/a>according to the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nationalmssociety.org\/how-you-can-help\/get-involved\/raise-awareness\">National Multiple Sclerosis Society<\/a> &mdash; but also to be so candid about it gives people who aren&rsquo;t famous permission to speak with more candor. When people hear about the impact of MS on a celebrity, that creates a foundation of understanding on which MSers can build with our friends and family.<\/p>\n<p>In a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodmorningamerica.com\/culture\/story\/christina-applegate-talks-new-memoir-love-young-fame-130535520\">recent interview<\/a> on &ldquo;Good Morning America,&rdquo; host Robin Roberts asked Applegate if she&rsquo;s still grieving her 2021 diagnosis. The actor said that the disease still does &ldquo;suck,&rdquo; and that none of the people she knows with MS would ever say that they&rsquo;re &ldquo;great.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<figure>\n<blockquote>\n<p>&ldquo;Where am I with acceptance? Not at all. I hate it.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/figure>\n<p>&ldquo;There is no &lsquo;great,&rsquo;&rdquo; she said. &ldquo;There&rsquo;s a better day and a less s&ndash;&ndash;&ndash;&ndash;y day. &hellip; Where am I with acceptance? Not at all. I hate it.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>This wasn&rsquo;t a &ldquo;woe is me&rdquo; response. It was real. It was something I&rsquo;d say if I was being truthful about living with relapsing remitting MS during summer days when I&rsquo;m trapped inside air-conditioned spaces so I don&rsquo;t become nauseated, lose limb strength or become cognitively fuzzy as my vision becomes impaired. It. Sucks.<\/p>\n<p>And thanks to Applegate&rsquo;s frankness, whether in her book or in the spaces she is helping us build as a community, perhaps I&rsquo;ll be able to muster the courage to answer the question &ldquo;How are you?&rdquo; a little more honestly next time.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p>Meredith O&rsquo;Brien is the author of six books, including a memoir, &#8220;Uncomfortably Numb: A Memoir about the Life-Altering Diagnosis of Multiple Sclerosis,&#8221; and &#8220;Uncomfortably Numb 2: An Anthology for Newly-Diagnosed MS Patients.&#8221; She is a trustee for the Greater New England Chapter of the National Multiple Sclerosis Society.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/section>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ms.now\/opinion\/christina-applegate-memoir-multiple-sclerosis\" class=\"button purchase\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tues. 7, 2026, 6:00 AM EST How are you? When you live with a chronic disease, this everyday question can feel like a trap. &ldquo;Does this person really want to know how I&rsquo;m doing &mdash; or is she just being polite?&rdquo; you wonder. If you opt to share the actual truth, is the nascent conversation [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":19720,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-19719","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-trump"],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bluelightnews.com\/category\/politics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19719","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bluelightnews.com\/category\/politics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bluelightnews.com\/category\/politics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bluelightnews.com\/category\/politics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bluelightnews.com\/category\/politics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19719"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bluelightnews.com\/category\/politics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19719\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bluelightnews.com\/category\/politics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19720"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bluelightnews.com\/category\/politics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19719"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bluelightnews.com\/category\/politics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19719"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bluelightnews.com\/category\/politics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19719"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}